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SAM POLANSKY, MA, LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

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GET TO KNOW ME

Hi, I’m Sam! I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist practicing in Los Angeles, California.

 

Before becoming a therapist, I spent nearly a decade working in advertising. In my late 20s, while navigating challenges with both my physical and emotional health, I was diagnosed with a chronic illness. That experience changed the trajectory of my life. I began to understand firsthand just how deeply connected our minds and bodies can be, and how much our past experiences, relationships, stress, and emotional worlds can shape the way we move through life.

 

My own therapeutic journey became an important part of finding my way back to myself. It gave me a deeper understanding of my patterns, helped me reconnect with parts of myself I had lost along the way, and ultimately inspired me to leave advertising and pursue a career helping others do the same.

 

I received my Master’s in Clinical Psychology from Antioch University Los Angeles and completed my clinical training at Beit T’Shuvah, a residential addiction treatment center, and Clear Behavioral Health, a PHP/IOP program where I worked with individuals, couples, and families. I also completed postgraduate programs in Patient Advocacy through UCLA Extension and Counseling and Psychology Professions through UC Berkeley Extension. I received my bachelor’s degree in Communications from the University of Wisconsin–Madison.

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Today, I bring both my clinical training and my own lived understanding of change, uncertainty, and healing into the therapy room. I know how vulnerable it can feel to look inward, challenge long-held beliefs, revisit painful experiences, or begin doing things differently. I also know how powerful it can be to understand yourself with greater compassion rather than judgment.

 

I don’t believe therapy is about “fixing” who you are. It is about becoming curious about how you became who you are, understanding the parts of you that learned to protect you along the way, and creating space for new ways of relating to yourself and the people around you.

 

I’m so glad you’re here. I look forward to getting to know you, hearing your story, and supporting you as you discover what healing and growth can look like for you.

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MY APPROACH

ALL ABOUT OUR THERAPY TOGETHER

Our experiences shape who we are—how we see ourselves, how we see the world, how we connect with others, and what we believe we're capable of. But those stories aren’t set in stone. Together, we can explore new possibilities, break free from old patterns, and rewrite the narrative. Just as each of us and our experiences are unique, therapy should reflect that same diversity and openness. You are uniquely you and the expert on your life, and I am here to create a safe, supportive, and compassionate space where you can uncover your needs, discover your voice, and begin making the changes that matter to you.

 

I bring a trauma-informed, collaborative approach to my work with individual adults, adolescents, couples, and families. My practice is grounded in a blend of therapeutic modalities, including client-centered talk therapy, trauma work, identifying and replacing disruptive patterns through Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), attachment work, Internal Family Systems (IFS), and relational conflict resolution. I am also trained in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) Therapy. EMDR therapy works to relieve, reduce, and reprocess the distress and negative beliefs, thoughts, and feelings associated with experienced unprocessed trauma through the use of bilateral stimulation.

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A significant part of my work involves helping clients understand the different “parts” of themselves that have developed throughout their lives. We all have parts that protect us. Parts that become anxious, shut down, seek control, people-please, become angry, strive for perfection, or tell us we are not enough. Rather than judging or trying to get rid of these parts, we can become curious about them. Often, behaviors that no longer serve us began as ways of protecting us or helping us survive something difficult. Parts work allows us to understand what those patterns are trying to protect, tend to the experiences underneath them, and develop a more compassionate relationship with ourselves.

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For experiences that feel deeply rooted or difficult to shift through talk therapy alone, I may also incorporate EMDR. Trauma and painful experiences can sometimes remain stored in ways that continue to influence how we feel and respond in the present, even when we intellectually understand that we are safe or that our circumstances have changed. EMDR can help us process these experiences so they feel less emotionally charged and have less power over our present-day lives.

 

We will work together to create a plan that feels authentic to you—one that supports your unique path to healing, feeling good, and living your best life.

MY SERVICES

Your wellness will be our ultimate priority. Whether you are looking for one-on-one support or therapy as a couple or family unit, our sessions will be tailored to your needs and goals. Please take a look at the services I offer to find which best fits you.

INDIVIDUAL ADULT & ADOLESCENT THERAPY

Understanding your thoughts and behavioral patterns can help increase daily function and overall wellness. Learning how we can effectively manage stress, conflict, and interpersonal struggles can be both empowering and immensely healing. Together we will work to strengthen your confidence and assist you in processing your experiences and bettering your understanding of where you are and where you want to be. I work with adult & adolescent individuals experiencing anxiety, depression, trauma, chronic illness, addiction, relational conflicts, disordered eating, and struggles with identity, self-esteem and self-worth.

COUPLES COUNSELING

Our relationships and relational conflicts oftentimes act as a highlight reel of our lived traumatic experiences playing on a loop. Together we will work to kindly confront disruptive patterns in communication, misaligned goals and desires, and encourage a relationship based upon understanding, compassion and mutual respect.

FAMILY THERAPY

A change in family dynamics can sometimes feel unattainable. I believe positive, healthy changes in family interaction and communication are possible. And while it may seem you cannot choose your family, you can choose to seek a more authentic, empowered, and healthy way of claiming space and interacting within your family system.

EMDR THERAPY

I am also trained in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing) Therapy. EMDR therapy works to relieve, reduce, and reprocess the distress and negative beliefs, thoughts, and feelings associated with experienced unprocessed trauma through bilateral stimulation (eye movement, tapping).

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SESSION INFORMATION

What to Expect

METHODS OF CONNECTING

I offer remote, online video sessions via a secure HIPAA-compliant online portal. I am based in Los Angeles and can only provide therapy to clients who are also in the state of California.

INITIAL CONSULTATION

I would love to hear from you! Please feel free to reach out to me via the contact page and schedule a no-fee 15-minute phone call to touch on what your needs and goals are and if we feel like a good fit.

PAYMENT OPTIONS

I currently accept credit card payments. I am an out-of-network provider but am happy to offer a monthly superbill.

CANCELLATION POLICY

Need to cancel? No worries! Please just give me 24 hours notice via text, email or voicemail before the start of our next session. Unfortunately, a full session fee will be applied for no-shows or late cancellations. This payment will be required before your next scheduled session.

CONTACT ME

(818) 639-2220

Sam Polansky, M.A., LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

LMFT #149456

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Sam Polansky, M.A., LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

LMFT #149456​​

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sampolanskytherapy@gmail.com

(818) 639-2220

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